THINGS THAT TURN A WOMAN OFF
Why should woman be turned off? To answer this question… let’s look at the meaning of turn-off… it means to switch off… in practical terms… if you are watching TV, what makes you switch it off? You switch it off when there’s nothing exciting on TV right? Imagine watching soap on TV… what makes you switch off from watching the soap? When it gets less exciting…. Besides what makes soap interesting? Conflict!!!!
That’s the word, conflict! If there was no conflict in life then there’s nothing worth living for… life becomes predictable and boring! If you knew during your life time… you’ll get an automatic A in all your exams… you got every woman you wanted you if you are a girl, you got every man you wanted… you had so much money that you lacked nothing… and life just seemed perfect… it sounds good and we all want that kind of life but when you do get it… it becomes very boring because it’s predictable!!!! I’ll ask the question again… how can you turn a woman off? By being predictable!!!! Example of things you can do that turns a woman off… calling her all the time! This is about the most jarring thing any guy can do! You might think by calling her all the time it shows are you are interested and you care about her… ask yourself why do you have to do all the work? Why can’t she be the one who wants to see if you are still interested and that you care about her? The thing is you can say just one sentence in a conversation or do something that will show a woman that you are interested and that you care about her! And you don’t have to call her for the rest of the week…but trust me she’ll be thinking about you all week. I’ll discuss that in later posts. Another thing you could do to turn a woman off is telling her how you feel all the time… You might think you saying to will make her reciprocate the words but it isn’t gonna happen so you might as well stop saying it! Also because you say it all the time it kinda loses its impact! The worst thing you can do is to NOT act like a man…how can you do this? By making her wear the trousers in the relationship… women don’t want that! They act like they do but once they do the relationship becomes predictable (because they always get what they want) and boring... women say they want a strong man who is at the same time sensitive… the thing is women don’t know what they want… the sensitive part is only wanted on some occasions not all the time! That’s why women love bad boys…they are strong and are emotionally unavailable…whereas nice guys think showing love and feelings all the time will make a woman satisfied… no it doesn’t… next thing you want to do that… think of a soap… what keeps it going? Conflict and unpredictability!
Has anyone else got examples of things guys do that turn a woman off?
That’s the word, conflict! If there was no conflict in life then there’s nothing worth living for… life becomes predictable and boring! If you knew during your life time… you’ll get an automatic A in all your exams… you got every woman you wanted you if you are a girl, you got every man you wanted… you had so much money that you lacked nothing… and life just seemed perfect… it sounds good and we all want that kind of life but when you do get it… it becomes very boring because it’s predictable!!!! I’ll ask the question again… how can you turn a woman off? By being predictable!!!! Example of things you can do that turns a woman off… calling her all the time! This is about the most jarring thing any guy can do! You might think by calling her all the time it shows are you are interested and you care about her… ask yourself why do you have to do all the work? Why can’t she be the one who wants to see if you are still interested and that you care about her? The thing is you can say just one sentence in a conversation or do something that will show a woman that you are interested and that you care about her! And you don’t have to call her for the rest of the week…but trust me she’ll be thinking about you all week. I’ll discuss that in later posts. Another thing you could do to turn a woman off is telling her how you feel all the time… You might think you saying to will make her reciprocate the words but it isn’t gonna happen so you might as well stop saying it! Also because you say it all the time it kinda loses its impact! The worst thing you can do is to NOT act like a man…how can you do this? By making her wear the trousers in the relationship… women don’t want that! They act like they do but once they do the relationship becomes predictable (because they always get what they want) and boring... women say they want a strong man who is at the same time sensitive… the thing is women don’t know what they want… the sensitive part is only wanted on some occasions not all the time! That’s why women love bad boys…they are strong and are emotionally unavailable…whereas nice guys think showing love and feelings all the time will make a woman satisfied… no it doesn’t… next thing you want to do that… think of a soap… what keeps it going? Conflict and unpredictability!
Has anyone else got examples of things guys do that turn a woman off?
posted by Olan Collardy at 11:35 am
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