ONE-ITIS
ONE-ITIS
One-itis is a natural thing that most guy succomb to. As in The dreaded "One-Itis," otherwise known as the ailment of liking that "One Special Girl" and wanting her more than any other woman on earth. A want so intense, that it's actually painful. Here it is, you put your all in one girl, dying down every other girl in your life just because ur scared to lose this girl, but this girl might not even like u as much as u think she does or as much as u like her....and shes probably got some male 'special friend' that shes always with, but ur instincts always tell u that they might av a thing going on but u just die down ur insecurities and drive past ur instincts...so later on as time goes by....you discover that you have been wasting ur time all along trying everything with this one special lady because all along she has been seeing other guys because(its not in the contract that she stays exclusive to you because you are not officilally going out) .
But my point is id rather be single than suffer from 'one-itis' and get played for a fool by a girl, because if i dont stay single im always gona have a mentality that everygirl that comes along can be a potential 'player' so i will NEVER take her seriously. Sounds harsh but i guess it's just a defence mechanism after suffering from such an illness. In fact, the funny thing, is that some guys actually love the feeling(once they are in it) becuase they feel that they are in total control, but on the outside, everyone else can see what is happening, your boys, your friends, even your female friends.
Guys leave comments if you've ever suffered from this, girls mind find it a bit 'controversial' as some felame friends don't see why it's an illness, but let's see what the fellas have to say about it.
Peace, Peace and Piece.
Raheem
One-itis is a natural thing that most guy succomb to. As in The dreaded "One-Itis," otherwise known as the ailment of liking that "One Special Girl" and wanting her more than any other woman on earth. A want so intense, that it's actually painful. Here it is, you put your all in one girl, dying down every other girl in your life just because ur scared to lose this girl, but this girl might not even like u as much as u think she does or as much as u like her....and shes probably got some male 'special friend' that shes always with, but ur instincts always tell u that they might av a thing going on but u just die down ur insecurities and drive past ur instincts...so later on as time goes by....you discover that you have been wasting ur time all along trying everything with this one special lady because all along she has been seeing other guys because(its not in the contract that she stays exclusive to you because you are not officilally going out) .
But my point is id rather be single than suffer from 'one-itis' and get played for a fool by a girl, because if i dont stay single im always gona have a mentality that everygirl that comes along can be a potential 'player' so i will NEVER take her seriously. Sounds harsh but i guess it's just a defence mechanism after suffering from such an illness. In fact, the funny thing, is that some guys actually love the feeling(once they are in it) becuase they feel that they are in total control, but on the outside, everyone else can see what is happening, your boys, your friends, even your female friends.
Guys leave comments if you've ever suffered from this, girls mind find it a bit 'controversial' as some felame friends don't see why it's an illness, but let's see what the fellas have to say about it.
Peace, Peace and Piece.
Raheem
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