THINGS THAT TURN A WOMAN OFF
Why should woman be turned off? To answer this question… let’s look at the meaning of turn-off… it means to switch off… in practical terms… if you are watching TV, what makes you switch it off? You switch it off when there’s nothing exciting on TV right? Imagine watching soap on TV… what makes you switch off from watching the soap? When it gets less exciting…. Besides what makes soap interesting? Conflict!!!!
That’s the word, conflict! If there was no conflict in life then there’s nothing worth living for… life becomes predictable and boring! If you knew during your life time… you’ll get an automatic A in all your exams… you got every woman you wanted you if you are a girl, you got every man you wanted… you had so much money that you lacked nothing… and life just seemed perfect… it sounds good and we all want that kind of life but when you do get it… it becomes very boring because it’s predictable!!!! I’ll ask the question again… how can you turn a woman off? By being predictable!!!! Example of things you can do that turns a woman off… calling her all the time! This is about the most jarring thing any guy can do! You might think by calling her all the time it shows are you are interested and you care about her… ask yourself why do you have to do all the work? Why can’t she be the one who wants to see if you are still interested and that you care about her? The thing is you can say just one sentence in a conversation or do something that will show a woman that you are interested and that you care about her! And you don’t have to call her for the rest of the week…but trust me she’ll be thinking about you all week. I’ll discuss that in later posts. Another thing you could do to turn a woman off is telling her how you feel all the time… You might think you saying to will make her reciprocate the words but it isn’t gonna happen so you might as well stop saying it! Also because you say it all the time it kinda loses its impact! The worst thing you can do is to NOT act like a man…how can you do this? By making her wear the trousers in the relationship… women don’t want that! They act like they do but once they do the relationship becomes predictable (because they always get what they want) and boring... women say they want a strong man who is at the same time sensitive… the thing is women don’t know what they want… the sensitive part is only wanted on some occasions not all the time! That’s why women love bad boys…they are strong and are emotionally unavailable…whereas nice guys think showing love and feelings all the time will make a woman satisfied… no it doesn’t… next thing you want to do that… think of a soap… what keeps it going? Conflict and unpredictability!
Has anyone else got examples of things guys do that turn a woman off?
That’s the word, conflict! If there was no conflict in life then there’s nothing worth living for… life becomes predictable and boring! If you knew during your life time… you’ll get an automatic A in all your exams… you got every woman you wanted you if you are a girl, you got every man you wanted… you had so much money that you lacked nothing… and life just seemed perfect… it sounds good and we all want that kind of life but when you do get it… it becomes very boring because it’s predictable!!!! I’ll ask the question again… how can you turn a woman off? By being predictable!!!! Example of things you can do that turns a woman off… calling her all the time! This is about the most jarring thing any guy can do! You might think by calling her all the time it shows are you are interested and you care about her… ask yourself why do you have to do all the work? Why can’t she be the one who wants to see if you are still interested and that you care about her? The thing is you can say just one sentence in a conversation or do something that will show a woman that you are interested and that you care about her! And you don’t have to call her for the rest of the week…but trust me she’ll be thinking about you all week. I’ll discuss that in later posts. Another thing you could do to turn a woman off is telling her how you feel all the time… You might think you saying to will make her reciprocate the words but it isn’t gonna happen so you might as well stop saying it! Also because you say it all the time it kinda loses its impact! The worst thing you can do is to NOT act like a man…how can you do this? By making her wear the trousers in the relationship… women don’t want that! They act like they do but once they do the relationship becomes predictable (because they always get what they want) and boring... women say they want a strong man who is at the same time sensitive… the thing is women don’t know what they want… the sensitive part is only wanted on some occasions not all the time! That’s why women love bad boys…they are strong and are emotionally unavailable…whereas nice guys think showing love and feelings all the time will make a woman satisfied… no it doesn’t… next thing you want to do that… think of a soap… what keeps it going? Conflict and unpredictability!
Has anyone else got examples of things guys do that turn a woman off?
posted by Olan Collardy at 11:35 am
16 Comments:
I've got one, there's this guy who thinks I like him but I dont and I tell him all the time but he still doesnt get the message.
It's so annoying!
i know wot u mean. i used 2 chat 2 sum guy who used 2 think i wos bang on his endz. i literally spelled it out 2 him dt i didn't lyk him but he jus didnt understand. in the end i told my friend 2 tell him, yeh i know it sounds bad mind but boi... he wasn't listenin 2 wot i wos sayin. finally he stopped callin me n wot not.
my patience is very limited and if a guy doesnt call when he said he would then i'm moving on to the next man. i ain't gonna chase you...i'll just replace you!
to me what turns me off a man is wen he gives all the sweet talk 24/7 and when he gives the cheesey lines like " ur eyes glisten and remind me of stars" or sum knda s**t like dat. there has 2 b a balance of rough but smooth, mean (not agressive or bad boy wannab be attitude)but sweet. keep me intrested. there has 2 b sum kinda clash in personalities but a gel that brings you togethor too. ur def right there has 2 b conflict to keep me intrested in a relationship. (my opinion)
that is so true! there has to be some sort of conflict to keep the relationship going! some sort of opposites... im feeling this
yo kelly whats happening with the email version of the brown suger lounge book?
Guys that are slobs and don't pick up after themselves or expect women to do all the cooking and cleaning really turns me off. Also, guys who are financially unstable. I don't mean unsecure, but who just don't manage their money right and blow it and then call their moms to borrow money for gas or groceries when they just came home with bags of new clothes and shoes and stuff! Agh!
the book is on the way
'Women dont know what they want??' Isnt that a bit sexist?
no its not. IT'S A FACT!
really?humour me.fact by what research statistics?ohhh,i dont think such a research exists.or maybe you've just met the wrong ones.
i guess m needs 2 date more women to find out if this is really true. ask any woman y she still loves off a guy who is definately not interested in her and is taking the piss, she'll tell u one day she hates this guy and the next day she'll tell u she cant see herself without him in her life....
now tell me... does she know what she wants?
well M doesnt date women because she is one herself and is very very much heterosexual just as God intended it to be
and saying women doesnt know what they want just because they say that 'they hate someone this minute and cant see themselves living without them the next' is not entirely true because u havent explored the issue properly.i'm sure at some point in ur life u have felt like u could do without the presence of ur mom or dad (whicheva u are closest to) and i'm sure at another point, u kno you couldnt do without them (if u av a mature relationship with them)........thats wat it is. feelings,they change lik seasons and just like a mentor of mine once said,never make permanent decisions on feelings.
n another one,i would tell a girl who loves a guy who is not interested in her and taking the piss at her to focus on herself n forget about the guy cos he isnt worth her time.or her in fact.cos guys who take the piss are still immature and havent known the true capacity and the strength of the love and presence of a woman in their life.
p.s women dont know, not 'doesnt'. Typo!
guys who take the piss r not necessarily immature, you must b an utter fool to let a guy walk over you!
CHEATING! mos definitely.
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