Do girl ever succeed as players?/ Sugarlounge the Revolution
I want to know, why do some girls think that they can be players in the dating stage? Ok, guys, imagine a girl is seeing you, and she is seeing other guys too. Im not talking about ordinary seeing, i mean you and her have a serious bond, but imagine before you came along she had already built serious bonds/friendships with let's say two other guys....thats some deep shit right? Now, you start talking to her and get really close and for most of your time you've been with her she's always told you that her relationship with these guys are just deep friendship because they know her completely. Now, you both start playing games with eachother, then try and show feelings, then switch back to game playing, it's going to fall back on you right. Now guys, i know your probably saying to yourself "i will never take that from her, is she dumb trying to play me?". Think deeply about it for a minute or two...........tick....tock.....tick....tock
(2 mins later)
Ok, it's naturals that fellas will tend to think like that, but think about it, if you are both seeing people and playing games with eachothers emotions then you are both in the wrong right, she tried to take you for a mug same way that you tried to take her for an idiot right? ....But really and truly she should have showed you that she was attatched to other guys before all of the problems and game playing started right guys....? ....so think of it like she thought she just keep everything in the mist and not make things clear, like she thought everything will just spring out in the open just like that, some might call it leading you on, girls might say it something else. Thats not my point.
My point is....? girls ok, its fair enough that you might want to get your own back on guys and play games back. But understand, the male and female mind and two TOTALLY different things. Males have only logic. Females on the other hand have two sides of their brain. Both emotional and logic. E.g girls, your logic tells you that you dont like that guy that approached you the other day because he isn't your 'type', but your emotions tell you that you are attracted to him no matter what your logic tells you, your emotion has no say, it doesnt let you take control, why do you think that breakups affect you so much, becasue you have made an emotional investment into the relationship. Guys naturally think with logic, now playin games is just a matter of rational thinking in various situations and working out outcomes of those situations. I personally believe that 'game' is not designed for the female mind, the female mind is too complex, which is why girls may get frustrated after a period of time after so much mind games in a relationship. My idea is, girls, dont ever try and juggle between more than one guy at a time because it will not succeed at all, a female mind is too much for even one let alone 3/4. Now some of you girls may even be wondering, what kind of girl will be juggling 3 guys? Believe me it happens, just be real with one guy because i dont think you understand how much the game play doesn't affect guys at all(80% of them), dont you understand? But i guess the whole relationship thing is not something that it worth discussing, because there are so many different views, the subject is so broad and wide. All we can do, is experience these things and learn from them i guess. From now on....my posts will be about my experiences my life, true stories, my views, my world.
(2 mins later)
Ok, it's naturals that fellas will tend to think like that, but think about it, if you are both seeing people and playing games with eachothers emotions then you are both in the wrong right, she tried to take you for a mug same way that you tried to take her for an idiot right? ....But really and truly she should have showed you that she was attatched to other guys before all of the problems and game playing started right guys....? ....so think of it like she thought she just keep everything in the mist and not make things clear, like she thought everything will just spring out in the open just like that, some might call it leading you on, girls might say it something else. Thats not my point.
My point is....? girls ok, its fair enough that you might want to get your own back on guys and play games back. But understand, the male and female mind and two TOTALLY different things. Males have only logic. Females on the other hand have two sides of their brain. Both emotional and logic. E.g girls, your logic tells you that you dont like that guy that approached you the other day because he isn't your 'type', but your emotions tell you that you are attracted to him no matter what your logic tells you, your emotion has no say, it doesnt let you take control, why do you think that breakups affect you so much, becasue you have made an emotional investment into the relationship. Guys naturally think with logic, now playin games is just a matter of rational thinking in various situations and working out outcomes of those situations. I personally believe that 'game' is not designed for the female mind, the female mind is too complex, which is why girls may get frustrated after a period of time after so much mind games in a relationship. My idea is, girls, dont ever try and juggle between more than one guy at a time because it will not succeed at all, a female mind is too much for even one let alone 3/4. Now some of you girls may even be wondering, what kind of girl will be juggling 3 guys? Believe me it happens, just be real with one guy because i dont think you understand how much the game play doesn't affect guys at all(80% of them), dont you understand? But i guess the whole relationship thing is not something that it worth discussing, because there are so many different views, the subject is so broad and wide. All we can do, is experience these things and learn from them i guess. From now on....my posts will be about my experiences my life, true stories, my views, my world.
Sugarlounge is the Revolution, the place where things that you never thought would happen, actually happens, dreams will turn to reality, believe me people.
Sugarlounge is not just a blog, it's a movement.
This post is dedicated to all of the female players and that dude in the coffee shop that told me about his situation which actually caused me to write such a post. Not forgetting Rafael, Metro, all of the women in my past and even present, and Kelly for starting something that will be classed as history in years to come, the journey begins.
posted by Miguel Harper at 11:37 am
4 Comments:
Hears what im saying "Karma" infact its not even Karma, God moves in mysterious ways, in the sense that if u do wrong by someone, then someone else will def do wrong by you. I myself was a full time player who had as many girls on my roster as the average platinum selling rap star, but retired out of the game after a series of events involving others and indeed myself. Imagine having girls on your case, having an option of who you want to go and see and when u when u want to see them well my friends, dat was the life i was living i was chirpsing girls left right centre and turning friends who were girls into admirers, my goal was 2 continue getting notches on my prozed belt. I did this and for around 3 years was on cloud 9 dat was till i found a few girls i actually did like (note i cheated on both of them), but one of them infact left me she turnt in 2 da devil himself, she was rude and not what i had bargined for although i still had mad love 4 her. Imagine da 1 girl u like and she just bounces, well dat is how all dat i and you have misteated feel, its not a nice feeling i can tell u dat much, infact it hurts. But if this is what it will take for the narrow minded and double standard people 2 fix up then so be it cos every one needs a wake up call, and if it dont happen 2 you please believe that ur daughter, sister or mother will take da heat for you.
Playing girls aint worth it ull only grow up 2 be wifeless and have hiv or 16 baby mothers and no access to any of ur kids.
Very Inetersting comment my brother
ehm, some comments i dont agree with?a woman's mind is too much for 1 not to talk of 3/4 guys?what does that mean?its okay for guys to multi-date but when women do it they are simply gettin back at the guys?who said it was only made for guys in the first place?and my favorite,made me laugh,guys ONLY have LOGIC?thats like saying you have half a brain side....and that doesnt look good on the male race.You DO HAVE THE emotional side,what you should have said was one gender was more versed with emotion/logic than the other.and most of this write up just sounds so chauvinistic.get another perspective.you just don't know women well enough.
Thanks to the last comment, jus for you there will be a whole post dedicated to this topic so look out for it. Everyone has their own opinions it's great.
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