Feb 27, 2005
Louise joined Byron and I at Bar One today… It was fun, having a female there at one of our “male bonding” sessions… and guess who joined us later on… Marie… Louise’s sister… she forgot her keys so had no choice… she’s so funny! Didn’t know beautiful girls could be funny as well… most of they are standoffish… Marie and Louise kept on talking about how much they wanted to see that new film “Coach Carter” I haven’t seen it or anything… but I reckon it’s gonna be like one of those cliché films… boy in a team going off the rails… coach tells him he’s got a lot of potential… and in the dying minutes of the film, there’s a basketball match… and the buzzer goes off to say time up… the ball is in mid-air and everyone’s staring in slow motion…. Then ball goes in and everyone screams…. Boy pledges to basketball team… I might be wrong, but there are like 50 films like that!!! The film I wanna see is Hitch… Will Smith’s new film… a lot of people say it reminds them of me… or maybe it should have co-starred me… hmmm…
I dropped Louise and Marie off and I was cotching there till around 1am!!! Watching “Best Man”… Louise loves that film off!!! Marie was on the phone to her boyfriend!!! (all throughout my stay!!!)… Louise cooked another good meal…. I was getting used to her cooking! She was now a proper friend… sometimes I still find it strange that we had done something in the past… she never mentioned it or brought it up! I told her about my day with Amerie yesterday… “Do you think she likes you?” She asked… “I don’t know you know… she’s a nice person… really friendly…even though she’s like mega-rich” I said… it was cool chatting to her on a level… I think every guy needs that… a girl they can talk to on a level!!!! It’s not always about doing things… friendship counts… she’s not like some girl’s who will undermine any chances you have with another girl because you’ve done something with them in the past….
After watching Best Man, we watched a re-run of last week’s O.C (I love that show!!!)… those shows just make you wanna be in love… or in some relationship and how sweet things can be… I think that’s why girls love those kinda shows… Dawson’s Creek was cool but they were too young to have been going through all those deep situations…. It would have been cool if they were much older….
Left Louise’s house, when I got a text
“Kelly, Kelly, Kelly, you are a very funny person, I don’t understand you, you are the most arrogant, cocky and overconfident guy I’ve ever met! I normally find it off-putting in a guy, but there something about you, I really like you and the more I ask myself, I can’t seem to know why!”
It was Amy…. she hasn’t called me in a while, neither have I…. and I wasn’t going to anytime soon… I can’t stop thinking about Amerie… I wasn’t going to rush anything… not planning to make any physical moves on her….. I want to enjoy Amerie for who she is…..
I want to savour her like sweet fine wine…..
I dropped Louise and Marie off and I was cotching there till around 1am!!! Watching “Best Man”… Louise loves that film off!!! Marie was on the phone to her boyfriend!!! (all throughout my stay!!!)… Louise cooked another good meal…. I was getting used to her cooking! She was now a proper friend… sometimes I still find it strange that we had done something in the past… she never mentioned it or brought it up! I told her about my day with Amerie yesterday… “Do you think she likes you?” She asked… “I don’t know you know… she’s a nice person… really friendly…even though she’s like mega-rich” I said… it was cool chatting to her on a level… I think every guy needs that… a girl they can talk to on a level!!!! It’s not always about doing things… friendship counts… she’s not like some girl’s who will undermine any chances you have with another girl because you’ve done something with them in the past….
After watching Best Man, we watched a re-run of last week’s O.C (I love that show!!!)… those shows just make you wanna be in love… or in some relationship and how sweet things can be… I think that’s why girls love those kinda shows… Dawson’s Creek was cool but they were too young to have been going through all those deep situations…. It would have been cool if they were much older….
Left Louise’s house, when I got a text
“Kelly, Kelly, Kelly, you are a very funny person, I don’t understand you, you are the most arrogant, cocky and overconfident guy I’ve ever met! I normally find it off-putting in a guy, but there something about you, I really like you and the more I ask myself, I can’t seem to know why!”
It was Amy…. she hasn’t called me in a while, neither have I…. and I wasn’t going to anytime soon… I can’t stop thinking about Amerie… I wasn’t going to rush anything… not planning to make any physical moves on her….. I want to enjoy Amerie for who she is…..
I want to savour her like sweet fine wine…..
posted by Olan Collardy at 10:46 pm
11 Comments:
I love brownsugar lounge! one thing ive noticed though, is that Kelly likes to have a lot of girls on him but not really settle down with any of them and doesnt like it when they go off with other guys (who are ready to commit), why is that? its funny because I'd probably fall for you if I knew you
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i love brownsugarlounge! its so amazing kelly, neway, y dont u wanna be with a girl like properly, out of al these girls u meet not one of them u wanna wifey?? ( i think louise satisfies a side of you that no one else does) ....don't u think
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hey dis is the boy hu asked bout his ex girl gettin jelous and i jus wana say thanx 4 ur advice, i can now c where shes cumin from...and yeah...i would proboably feel the same if she went off wiv sum otha man. thanx
hey, i jus wanan say that this book thing is so realistic and that if u r basing it on real life kelly, i thinks thats great, cos that shows u have a real talent that u can take summin and adapt it and put it into words on this blog and make it sound so real life!!! keep up the good work....i would love to link u...xxxxx
hey i got a question, how do u guys peice a girl (more than twice again and again) and still claim to have no feelings for them i don't understand.....yeah at times its just peice, but its gota be more right? if it happens frequently, like kelly i don't no how u don't get emotionally attached ?(even the slightest) with any of these girls , yes i no boys can handle their emotions better than girls but every1 human at the ned of the day
hi i am just reading ur blog for the first time cos my girlfriend recomended it, i have just read it from the beginnning and i dont seem to comprehend why you do not hunt lorraine down? you want her right? so go after her, or louise she seems like an ideal woman and also that Claire that you say no one matches up to, so why dont you get back with her since shes in the country, i no u want to play around but is it not time u settled down - i swear your like 26?!
kelly's actually 22
As for boys, its more of a challenge to piece a girl (in most cases), so emotions dont come into it in most cases. Men are naturally born hunters, their task is to hunt and conquer, that's why after the marriage everything goes regressive, that's why is strongly suggested you have a deep friendship with you boyfriend/girlfriend before getting into anything serious because its the friendship that will hold you two together, when the love/lust is gone!!!
hey i'm da gal who asked bout the peicing thing......thanx i understand that, thats why wen girls cum out of relationships (long term) they feel like their worlds ending cause building up that freindship wit sum1 new semes impossible.....and now adays its like no guy wants to b ur friend just physical stuff......and then the girls r like okay hoping they'lll work on the friend bit afterwards but thats never the case...oh well
and wen peeps break up and the girl keeps ringing or calling or watever i swear like 60% of the time shes just trying to retain the friendship.....whereas guys r so quick and find it easy to let go of ur friendship
"The wise one"
maybe women dont fully understand men (just like we men dont understand you). Men are not into all the talking/friendship thing, we do it just to please you lot during the "getting to know you" phase. So after the break up, all the other "talking" is not seen as necessary. Hardly will you meet a man who will talk to a girl about all his life problems, men want solutions to their problems, women give empathy not solutions and a man only talks to another man about his problems only if he knows/thinks the other man has got solutions to his problem! it comes down to the macho crap men have to live up to. Instead of men spilling out their tears and words, they spill it out with violence and bullets, that's what the society moulds them to become; emotionless creatures who's sole aim to to conquer else you are unfit to be a man. Thats why it seems like the number of women you've been with shows how "manly" you are whereas IT SHOULD BE THE QUALITY OF WOMEN YOU'VE BEEN WITH... anyway that's life!
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