April 2, 2005

It’s funny how women are quick to wanna screw you over or get you jealous. I’m not sure if Amerie was doing it consciously but is it me, or she’s been seeing a lot of Quincy lately? She got back from Spain yesterday and they both went to the Musiq concert! What’s that all about… that brother best start saving his money and spending it on more fruitful prospects… I mean Amerie is mine!!! Fair enough, I’m starting to like this girl, kinda getting fond of her, don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing but I’m not feeling this whole, seeing too much of Quincy, I wasn’t going to complain, just as long as I get my attention… She’s a funny person… she’s having a get together with all her friends tomorrow, err… to talk about her holiday… and just have a drink up… and guess who’s going to be there… Louise!!!??? Apparently she’s been talking to Louise, after the party Marie and her friends threw the other day… I reckon they like acquaintances and not really friends… and I hope that dumb girl aint about to spoil my chances with Amerie… its not about that… you can’t trust scorned girls though, they always out to screw you over…

Many guys find themselves in a situation, or should I call it predicament, where you meet a girl that you actually like and you thinking what should you do after you get together to make sure that you keep “getting together”. Most guys settle for the women that they wind up in long term relationships with but the thing is when you begin to understand women and have more success with them, you start to realise that most girls you meet are not the type that you’d be happy with long term… which is one of the greatest issues I’m facing right now… because you’ve got a vast range of choices, you don’t wanna settle for the first one that comes…. But the most important thing to be aware of is that when you have mastered the techniques of making women feel attracted to you, both physically and emotionally, AND YOU FINALLY MEET A WOMAN WHO YOU FANCY A LOT, YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH THINGS IN THE RIGHT WAY IF YOU WANT TO KEEP HER!!!!!

One thing to always keep in mind is, if this girl is really attractive, then you are not the first guy who has fancied her, or is fancying her currently!!! You should note that she’s approached all the time by guys and probably has a lot of experience (whether good or bad) with guys who want to “put their bid in”. I mean she gets approached by men all the time, most times the men who put their bid in all wind up being a sucker for her, either at the start or by the way (MAKE SURE THIS ISN’T YOU!!!!)… and when a guy acts too nice, too sweet and does it too early, she correlates this as a sign of neediness (it’s a turn off trust me!!!) and she is repelled by this attitude… that’s what happens when a girl says she’s bored in a relationship… this means the guy is becoming too predictable… give her a lil’ rollercoaster… take her down… way down… when she’ll ask herself why she bothers with you… and then throw her high up in the sky (not only when you are getting physical)…. But do out of the blue things… like call her randomly… during the day to say you were thinking about her… and she’ll be like… I swear he was acting like a prick the other day and now he’s all ???? women say they hate inconsistency (excluding cheating) in guys… its because they cant get their grips around you… they wanna be in control, but when they are, they get bored… so really they don’t wanna be in control… very unstable people, they are…

What you wanna do is create a little tension, (remember the rubber band)… push her away from you gently in order to bring her to you… its reverse logic but think about it… people want what they cant have...!

How can you a girl want you? (bare guys are dying for the answer to this question!)… it’s helpful if you can understand this concept… ask yourself what you want and WHY you want that thing…. You’ll realise this is a deep question… and the end of the day, people want things for most illogical reasons… that’s why a girl who is so into you cant even give five good reasons why she likes you… People want what they don’t have, and being fully aware that something which is readily available to us makes us lose interest… remember as a lil’ kid when you got that toy you always wanted and after a month or two… u cant be bothered with the toy anymore.. and even as grown ups… when you buy new shoes… you keep it in the box for like the first few months… after which you just leave lying anywhere in the cupboard, and the once “brand new trainers” become the sneakers you use to play Sunday league football!!! Therefore if the girl was all so into you at first, if nothing is done to keep you dynamic, she’ll dump your sorry ass like last week’s papers!!!!... so you say to yourself, why can’t the girl just tell you when to call her, what to say and how to say it…. !!!! that’s where game comes in… even if you know the exact right things to say to a lady, and the exact time to say them, the woman you are talking to will still be able to pick up what you are really thinking if you don’t understand how and why women become attracted to guys!!!!

A few tips… create a challenge, give her a lil’ taster and lean back!!! Give me the gift of missing you AND BE UNPREDICTABLE!!! When you create a challenge you engage a girl’s mind and emotions… she’s dying to know more about you… women feel attracted to men who are a challenge…. REMEMBER PEOPLE WANT THINGS THEY CANT HAVE!!! That’s why there’s a saying that goes… “Difficult chics are the sweetest!!!!” make her ask for more of that good stuff… that good luv!!!! If you keep showering her with attention… she’ll get bored of it and you’ll become less interesting if not UNINTERSTING!!!! When you make a woman miss you, she cant stop thinking about you and the next time she’ll get to see you… don’t feel like you have to call and keep an eye on a girl all the time, thinking she’ll lose interest in you if you don’t….things that are predictable are very uninteresting and boring… how boring will trading on the stock market be if it weren’t surrounded in uncertainty??? Unpredictable things and people are fascinating to people especially women… that’s why producers are always trying to put a good twist into their movies to make them less predictable because predictability ruins a film!!! As in ruins a guy’s prospect!!!!

So when you feel like you’ve finally got a woman interested in you, it’s not time to be showing her down with attention… its time to…

…LEAN BACK, LEAN BACK… GO ON LEAN BACK!!!!