April 11, 2005

Any guy will have to confess understanding women was about the most difficult thing ever. Its one of those things where people say “The more you look, the less you see…” the more you try to look hard into what a girl does, the less it makes sense, because they are about the least rational!!! Ever asked a woman if her friend was pretty… and she’d say “She’s so pretty…” and when you see this “pretty” friend of her… you are MORTIFIED!!! And when she tells you are girl is ugly… this “ugly” girl is way finer than this girl herself….

Ever wondered why women go parties all dressed up with bare makeup??? I mean without all these amendments… some of these girls are way beautiful!!!! NOTE: SOME!!!... women keep on saying… it’s not all about appearance, it’s all about personality… yet, they take forever when getting ready for a night out!!! Does that make sense??? They say "I want a man who will love me for me… and look beyond my body and looks…!”HELLO!!!! Why are you tend spending about £70 every other week to get your hair done, and you cant see to stop buying clothes and shoes… and you go to a party showing cleavage and the tightest ever blue jeans!!!! What is this all about, it doesn’t make sense! It looks like women seem to contradict themselves with everything they say and do!!!! For example a very attractive woman gets attention from men all the time, irrespective of what she’s wearing!!! And she doesn’t have to accentuate her looks to attract them!!! But when you think about it, its these beautiful women that go to the greatest lengths to enhance their beauty… take for example beautiful singers and celebs, they look amazing and any man will kill to spend the night with them, irrespective of what they are wearing!!! Yet, they’ll go under the knife to make themselves one cup larger…very irrational I’ll say… your beautiful girlfriend spends hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out and puts on tons of makeup EVEN THOUGH YOU’VE SEEN HER WITHOUT MAKEUP AND SEEN EVERTHING TO HER!!! Is it rational to get an extra tinny winy bit of beauty even though the woman has got more than enough???

I came to a realization why women might go to these limits to get that lil’ extra beauty… Many women go through these lengths in order to attract the BEST GUY IN THE CLUB!!!! Think about it… she knows there are going to be loads of guys there, but REALLY… 5% of those “loads” are the very good (buff) ones… and she knows she wants to be giving her number to one of these… and she knows THAT THIS GUYS HAVE OPTIONS BECAUSE THEY ARE GOOD LOOKING!!!! And she needs to look extra beautiful to have the best chance of getting one of these buff ones!!! Another reason is to fair on a competition from other women… BUFF WOMEN ARE VERY COMPETITIVE!!!! More than you think…. You’ll think when are woman is beautiful, she isn’t watching anyone else, but they are the really bitchy ones!!! Next time you go to a party, club, and bar or wherever there are loads of women (especially beautiful ones who have made an effort)… When a buff girl enters the room, everyone in the place turns round to look at this beautiful damsel who has just walked in… the “Not So Good Looking” guys looks at this girl and say to themselves “I better look at this girl real good so that when I get home, I can fantasize about her while I beat on the bishop!” The buff guys who have options look at her and think to themselves, “I’ll probably talk to her later”. And the other beautiful women look at her and give her that BITCHY LOOK!!! Every guy must have witnessed this before and ever girl can confess to this!!!! “Who does she think she is?” they’ll say to the next… “A bit too overdressed isn’t she?”, “I bet that dress is from the market”, “Look at her weave”… in short they always have something bitchy to say about her… This is because another buff woman is seen as extreme competition!!! And she doesn’t like this because she knows the other buff woman will be competing with her for the BUFF MANZ!!! Therefore, women trying to minimize their competition, spend hours by accentuating their good points to the maximum!!! Therefore they are going all out to get the most attention and approval from the BUFF MANZ!!! Think of it this way, with this behaviour found in women, there is a DARK SIDE!!!, just like any other thing that elicit feelings, attention and approval can lead to ADDICTION!!! It’s like money, fame, power and even drugs!!!! YOU CAN’T GET ENOUGH!!! Here is where guys can cash in… If a buff girl who is always getting attention and approval from men, and you meet a man who doesn’t give you that attention and approval, it has a great impact on the woman!!! She just can’t understand why! This is because beautiful women don’t meet guys who don’t give a monkeys about her beauty!!! I mean guys go to bars and clubs… they see a beautiful girl and the first thing they wanna say is “You looking nice tonight” DUH!!! You are like the 100th guy who said that tonight!!! Why don’t you drop the bomb on her… by either not paying attention to her “beauty” or making something secondary the focus… i.e. “Those shoes look wicked, my sister’s got one of them… they’ll look better in white (considering her shoes are another colour, plus ensure that the colour you suggest match what she’s wearing otherwise, you would look like dud!!! If you want to attract these beautiful women, then you’ll need to understand what creates the idea that you are one of those BUFF MANZ!!! And you can easily do this by becoming rich and famous, have a surgery to look like Tyson Beckford or better still elicit that attraction inside of her!!!

When a guy triggers this attraction, she cant control it, (note that if a guy can point to the reasons why she likes you, i.e. because you are good looking, rich, famous, good in bed… then really you haven’t aroused any deep attraction in her… you’ve just won her affection with these attributes… real attraction cannot be explained…!!!!) If a woman starts to feel this deep feeling called attraction, I’m sure she didn’t think about it and decide to feel it and she can’t change it by thinking about it…. Therefore if you are involved with a BUFF WOMAN, never interact with her in a tone that will show that who are inundated by her beauty and that you cant control yourself… if you have to compliment her… compliment something secondary i.e. nothing to do with her looks… and if you have to say something about her looks… do it in a cocky but funny way!!! i.e. “I thought all pretty girls were dumb, and you’ve proved to be the first exception…” She’ll regard it as sexist, but the fact that you think she’s pretty and smart will overwhelm the sense of insult…

If you can control the amount of attention you give to her or don’t give in to her looks too fast then you’ll stir great interest in her… This is because people can’t handle the fact that people are not crediting them with the honour they feel they deserve and will do anything to find out!!! Then, instead of you pursuing her, she’ll start to pursue you… I was with a female friend the other day, and she called some guy, who wasn’t “BUFF”,neither “RICH” nor “FAMOUS”… and when she came off the phone to him, she was like “What? he’s meant to be on it!!! And he’s not even showing me any interest!!!” But this guy was a complete dud!!! He phone back in five minutes saying he was sorry for being rude to her…. And the attraction died!!! And she’s back in control… The more you kiss a woman’s ass, the more you brush up her ego and feels you need to keep on kissing it!!! Have you ever met a girl who was like no-one before… and one day, she happened to look nice… and ever since then, guys started paying her attention, complimenting her… always calling her and telling her how good she looks or how her body cant make them think straight… then what happens… this girl develops some attitude and feels she’s a diva and feels she’s too nice… and feels she can be picky!!! Sometimes men are the enemies of their own progress with a woman… you’ve met a woman at a party and you’ve told her she looks nice and how you want her number, but she’s not giving it to you… and still you persist, giving her compliments and chatting all your best chat up lines… she’ll keep on saying no and the more NO’S she says to guys who compliment her so much, the more she feels she’s so beautiful and powerful… thinking “Oh my days… I’m rejecting these men and they’ll are still flocking in kissing my ass!”

So, if there’s a woman you’ve been kissing her ass for long and she aint showing no love back… STOP WHATEVER YOU ARE DOING BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY IT ISNT WORKING!!!!! Stop showing her so much interest and approval!!! Better still show her you not interested anymore…but getting involved with another “buff” woman… don’t forget… women hate competition and will do anything to stay above the competition….

So sit back….. because there’s about to be a GIRL FIGHT!!!!