March 8, 2005
Amerie wants to do something this weekend, wants to go to some fancy Thai restaurant called Blue Elephant in Fulham, apparently its meant to be really good. I'm not feeling the whole eating out thing... it puts the whole thing into this "courtship mode"..."we going out to eat"... Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind going, but I am not feeling the fact that she suggested it... it would be bad mind for me to say, no I'm busy... actually I could say that... I told her I'll look at my schedule... She's such a lovely lady, cant believe I'm this relaxed about her, normal Kelly will be up in her grills, but I'm trying to slow things down.
Michael called me today (that's a strange one... he's normally so busy shuttling in and out of London)... "How's wifey?" I asked him... "She's cool, she's been complaining I'm always too busy... oh well what can I do... I gotta keep on making the papes... like u said 'Romance without revenue is rubbish'... where on earth did you get that from...?" He laughed on the phone... "Seen, it’s all good though, as long as you let her know what the deal is" I said... If there was anyone who was going to make a good and caring hubby, it would have to be Michael, he'd run around town for his girl, I think it was just him in general... he's what I call a true friend... Michael will go out of his way for anyone... second in line will be Byron... actually I haven’t seen him go out of his way for any wifey he'd had but he's a friendly chap... very outgoing... don’t know if that's a good thing or bad thing... it'll probably drive his wifey crazy interpreting his being "friendly" with flirting... Byron was the man back in the days... wonder where is game is right now.... hmm... thirdly... that'll have to be me... I'm not so sure...but back in the days... I was the king of showing luv to your wifey... If I got paid for the month, I'll have to get my wifey something... call her everyday, drop her home... all the fancy stuff girls dream about... but that's all fairy tale love, it ain't reality, girls get bored of all that crap and they are just afraid to admit it!!! So if keeping them on their toes works... then don’t trade it for anything... I'm also fantastic at picking presents... guys...keep it simple and sweet... all that DVD player or "Web Cam" (dirty...dirty) don’t cut it as gifts... then at the other end of the spectrum is Mark... Mark is just a busy lad... his relationship would be so funny because his phone is always ringing... he's always on the move... I can only remember once when Mark was all up into a girl... don’t ask me what that girl did to him but... Mark spoke to this girl about five times a day (NOt hello how are you... a proper conversation!...lasting at least an hour)!!! ON THE PHONE!!!! And THEY BLIMEY WENT TO THE SAME UNI!!???? AND SEE EACH OTHER EVERYDAY!!!! And listening to them argue was a pain!!! That’s the only time I could say Mark was "involved" with a girl... other times Mark could have ten girlfriends at once... that's just comical!!! I remember one time... I was in the car with Mark... he was driving and there was this girl, we met together... who was also in the car... I was talking to the girl... and asked if her man was going to be at the party we were going to.... She's like "No..." I'm like I swear you had a man like a week ago... she's like my man is in this car.... Okay... I know I'm not your man.... to my knowledge; Mark is not your man.... so therefore your man has to be a ghost right? Mark was just quiet, driving like he hadn’t heard what was being discussed.... after the party... I'd asked him... and he's like yeah.... he was going out with her... more like he was ashamed of the fact that he was actually going out with her... "I swear you've got like five other girlfriends...???" I asked...."It's about keeping your piece secure..." he'd smiled... (I swear that was the last time he saw or spoke to that girl and the girl still thinking she's got a man...)... he was a totally different character... girls to him was like eating on your way somewhere... eat and throw away the wrapper away... five minutes later... eat another and chuck away the wrapper... he was constantly on the go.... funny lad he is......
It's funny how girls always carry on like they are always the victims of game being abused... girls have game as well and not all girls are as dumb as they look.. The same way men target to get something, girls do the same (not all of them... that’s the good news), the only difference is they do it on the sly... Half the time, girls say "Yes" to boys out of sympathy (if you think about it.... that’s disturbing...don’t think about how many girls could have done this to you)... or try not to hurt your feelings... so she goes on like she likes him (most times a girl can think a boy is butters but because of his personality, they start feeling something... big loophole which a lot of men take advantage of)... I reckon girls should sum up the courage to tell a boy that they don’t actually fancy them but like their personality... (that's not gonna happen because if it does... that spells the end for all butters boys just like butters girls don’t get none! but butters boys still get away with it!)... A major factor that contributes to girls being in relationships is the PRESSURE...because a lot of girls are so INSECURE, particularly with image and appearance and a lot of boys can see this.. (Therefore take advantage!!!! another loophole!!!) Girls just jump when they see the first thing (i.e. the teen years... when the culture of insecurity begins)... instead of dropping it...it carries on!!!!...
Most times girls tell their girlfriends stuff, most of the time their girlfriends will be like "Go on...." even if they don’t like the boy, but because they enjoy the thrill, they tell the girl to go there and get her piece, to make matters worse she doesn’t really like the boy but goes there just because he friends encourage her to (loophole three!!!)... IT’S SO SILLY!!! The same boy your friends cuss all the time....all of a sudden, they are like "He's sweet, he's aight"... ASK THEM...WILL THEY GO THERE??? so this "innocent" girl goes there with this "Used to be" useless, butters, conniving dog who overnight turned into "oh he's sweet, he's cute, he looks like he'll be good in bed business"... girls carry on like Looks don’t count... with "I want a man who cares about me...that’s all I want..." MALARKEY!!!! Looks count, girls try act like it doesn’t matter, the whole package counts!!! LOOKS, BRAINS, WIT, FUNNY, PERSONALITY and GAME of course!!!... LOOKS are important and you really can't say you wanna be in a relationship that will last without no physical attraction...there's gotta be something that will make you wanna come home to meet at night... ladies.... when you have a buff man, you'll be introducing to everyone... ain't feeling no shame walking down the street....!!! (that's my favourite part... the introductions... when all the friends' eyes light up and go.... "oh...so you are Kelly, that she's been going all crazy about...." then she starts to tell you all the things her friends said in the bathroom... and you can't help but to think...."You better recognize!!!"
The other thing about girls... sometimes they wanna get out of a relationship (good news guys... so don’t always back off... with the "I've got a man" line....) but don’t wanna hurt him and at the same time they want piece... (Loophole four!!!)... it gets to a point the girl can't stand him and everything he does starts to irritate her and looking for silly excuses to lock it off and she always tries to pick a fight with him... (GUYS DONT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!!! IF IT'S HAPPENING TO YOU, RUN TO THE MIRROR IN THE BATHROOM AND BITCH SLAP YOURSELF TILL IT DAWNS ON YOU SHE'S ACTUALLY RUNNING GAME ON YOU), she starts to drop hints..Saying stuff like "But that's how girls are..." ERR...NAAA!!!!... Saying why can’t you do this... how come other guys are different... "You don’t treat me right" talk when the girl fully knows that he's treating her damn good!!!.... I mean, the guy will take time out for her, take her places (PAY FOR EVERYTHING!) and burn his credit (for those on pay as you go), or go over his free time!!! I mean the guy is making an effort, but simply because you are not on it, you wanna chat rubbish!!! So he gets confused and pissed!!! Saying I don’t understand girls and the girl knows fully well at this stage she's taking the piss!!!... and when they feel bad...they drop the "This isn’t working" line..."its not you, its me" ... or some of them carry on dumb, using and abusing the guy, maybe some guys deserve it... because they think they are smart and playing some games as well....
At the end of the day... this game is dirty... A relationship is a dirty game... its all about survival of the fittest...!
...no matter what anyone says... in a relationship... one person is always more on it than the other person... one person always comes out of it better....
….Is it you?
Michael called me today (that's a strange one... he's normally so busy shuttling in and out of London)... "How's wifey?" I asked him... "She's cool, she's been complaining I'm always too busy... oh well what can I do... I gotta keep on making the papes... like u said 'Romance without revenue is rubbish'... where on earth did you get that from...?" He laughed on the phone... "Seen, it’s all good though, as long as you let her know what the deal is" I said... If there was anyone who was going to make a good and caring hubby, it would have to be Michael, he'd run around town for his girl, I think it was just him in general... he's what I call a true friend... Michael will go out of his way for anyone... second in line will be Byron... actually I haven’t seen him go out of his way for any wifey he'd had but he's a friendly chap... very outgoing... don’t know if that's a good thing or bad thing... it'll probably drive his wifey crazy interpreting his being "friendly" with flirting... Byron was the man back in the days... wonder where is game is right now.... hmm... thirdly... that'll have to be me... I'm not so sure...but back in the days... I was the king of showing luv to your wifey... If I got paid for the month, I'll have to get my wifey something... call her everyday, drop her home... all the fancy stuff girls dream about... but that's all fairy tale love, it ain't reality, girls get bored of all that crap and they are just afraid to admit it!!! So if keeping them on their toes works... then don’t trade it for anything... I'm also fantastic at picking presents... guys...keep it simple and sweet... all that DVD player or "Web Cam" (dirty...dirty) don’t cut it as gifts... then at the other end of the spectrum is Mark... Mark is just a busy lad... his relationship would be so funny because his phone is always ringing... he's always on the move... I can only remember once when Mark was all up into a girl... don’t ask me what that girl did to him but... Mark spoke to this girl about five times a day (NOt hello how are you... a proper conversation!...lasting at least an hour)!!! ON THE PHONE!!!! And THEY BLIMEY WENT TO THE SAME UNI!!???? AND SEE EACH OTHER EVERYDAY!!!! And listening to them argue was a pain!!! That’s the only time I could say Mark was "involved" with a girl... other times Mark could have ten girlfriends at once... that's just comical!!! I remember one time... I was in the car with Mark... he was driving and there was this girl, we met together... who was also in the car... I was talking to the girl... and asked if her man was going to be at the party we were going to.... She's like "No..." I'm like I swear you had a man like a week ago... she's like my man is in this car.... Okay... I know I'm not your man.... to my knowledge; Mark is not your man.... so therefore your man has to be a ghost right? Mark was just quiet, driving like he hadn’t heard what was being discussed.... after the party... I'd asked him... and he's like yeah.... he was going out with her... more like he was ashamed of the fact that he was actually going out with her... "I swear you've got like five other girlfriends...???" I asked...."It's about keeping your piece secure..." he'd smiled... (I swear that was the last time he saw or spoke to that girl and the girl still thinking she's got a man...)... he was a totally different character... girls to him was like eating on your way somewhere... eat and throw away the wrapper away... five minutes later... eat another and chuck away the wrapper... he was constantly on the go.... funny lad he is......
It's funny how girls always carry on like they are always the victims of game being abused... girls have game as well and not all girls are as dumb as they look.. The same way men target to get something, girls do the same (not all of them... that’s the good news), the only difference is they do it on the sly... Half the time, girls say "Yes" to boys out of sympathy (if you think about it.... that’s disturbing...don’t think about how many girls could have done this to you)... or try not to hurt your feelings... so she goes on like she likes him (most times a girl can think a boy is butters but because of his personality, they start feeling something... big loophole which a lot of men take advantage of)... I reckon girls should sum up the courage to tell a boy that they don’t actually fancy them but like their personality... (that's not gonna happen because if it does... that spells the end for all butters boys just like butters girls don’t get none! but butters boys still get away with it!)... A major factor that contributes to girls being in relationships is the PRESSURE...because a lot of girls are so INSECURE, particularly with image and appearance and a lot of boys can see this.. (Therefore take advantage!!!! another loophole!!!) Girls just jump when they see the first thing (i.e. the teen years... when the culture of insecurity begins)... instead of dropping it...it carries on!!!!...
Most times girls tell their girlfriends stuff, most of the time their girlfriends will be like "Go on...." even if they don’t like the boy, but because they enjoy the thrill, they tell the girl to go there and get her piece, to make matters worse she doesn’t really like the boy but goes there just because he friends encourage her to (loophole three!!!)... IT’S SO SILLY!!! The same boy your friends cuss all the time....all of a sudden, they are like "He's sweet, he's aight"... ASK THEM...WILL THEY GO THERE??? so this "innocent" girl goes there with this "Used to be" useless, butters, conniving dog who overnight turned into "oh he's sweet, he's cute, he looks like he'll be good in bed business"... girls carry on like Looks don’t count... with "I want a man who cares about me...that’s all I want..." MALARKEY!!!! Looks count, girls try act like it doesn’t matter, the whole package counts!!! LOOKS, BRAINS, WIT, FUNNY, PERSONALITY and GAME of course!!!... LOOKS are important and you really can't say you wanna be in a relationship that will last without no physical attraction...there's gotta be something that will make you wanna come home to meet at night... ladies.... when you have a buff man, you'll be introducing to everyone... ain't feeling no shame walking down the street....!!! (that's my favourite part... the introductions... when all the friends' eyes light up and go.... "oh...so you are Kelly, that she's been going all crazy about...." then she starts to tell you all the things her friends said in the bathroom... and you can't help but to think...."You better recognize!!!"
The other thing about girls... sometimes they wanna get out of a relationship (good news guys... so don’t always back off... with the "I've got a man" line....) but don’t wanna hurt him and at the same time they want piece... (Loophole four!!!)... it gets to a point the girl can't stand him and everything he does starts to irritate her and looking for silly excuses to lock it off and she always tries to pick a fight with him... (GUYS DONT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!!! IF IT'S HAPPENING TO YOU, RUN TO THE MIRROR IN THE BATHROOM AND BITCH SLAP YOURSELF TILL IT DAWNS ON YOU SHE'S ACTUALLY RUNNING GAME ON YOU), she starts to drop hints..Saying stuff like "But that's how girls are..." ERR...NAAA!!!!... Saying why can’t you do this... how come other guys are different... "You don’t treat me right" talk when the girl fully knows that he's treating her damn good!!!.... I mean, the guy will take time out for her, take her places (PAY FOR EVERYTHING!) and burn his credit (for those on pay as you go), or go over his free time!!! I mean the guy is making an effort, but simply because you are not on it, you wanna chat rubbish!!! So he gets confused and pissed!!! Saying I don’t understand girls and the girl knows fully well at this stage she's taking the piss!!!... and when they feel bad...they drop the "This isn’t working" line..."its not you, its me" ... or some of them carry on dumb, using and abusing the guy, maybe some guys deserve it... because they think they are smart and playing some games as well....
At the end of the day... this game is dirty... A relationship is a dirty game... its all about survival of the fittest...!
...no matter what anyone says... in a relationship... one person is always more on it than the other person... one person always comes out of it better....
….Is it you?
posted by Olan Collardy at 6:32 pm
29 Comments:
Welcome to the GAME show!
"Someboby's gotta be on top
Either you or me
And thats the way it goes" - Joe
Dont blow it!
I've made Sugarlounge my Homepage.
What are you waiting for.
Girlfriend! I now know what your up to!
Kelly causes an Infatuation in me!
All up in yurself!
Michael seems like the type of MAN i'd let take a journey through my mind and my whole body.
yeah gurl (Chantelle)! Blarrrpppp
KELLY = MALARKEY !
Blarrrrrrppppp!
Simoly dont understand how kelly gets this from. he must have a lot of girlfriends 'girls that are friends', bcos u honestly no way 2 much than need, but funny how u talk about pressure and insecuritty, bcos that would have to be the situation im in now with this boy tha go ma college. it like u already no me kelly and u talking directly to me. im sorry to say this but u no how they always say, girl best friend gay, i t just that u no so much like i mean about girls. i still
enuff girls that comment on this site about kelly being gay are so dumb. about girl's best friend is gay, i'll like to know how many girls who read brownsugar lounge actually have gay friends! grow up girls, this gay thing is getting boring
sum1 chatting like they know joe's lyrics, have u heard the same joe wiv chico debarge
"You don't understand
The make up of a man
If I treat you like a dog
Then you wanna stay
If I treat you like a woman
Then you wanna walk away"
Dont try act like u know
why are peepz going on like kelly is gay, how is he gay, what has gay got2do wt nonin a woman. and kellylounge is getting intersting bocse he talkning sense. jus cos he saying thing u no is truth, u hating and calling my baby gay.
little kids that r making little comments, from their little mentality. that college girl, u act like u actually in secondary not college.
''calling my baby gay''..........SEEN kellys ur baby, i feel sorry for u
"...no matter what anyone says... in a relationship... one person is always more on it than the other person... one person always comes out of it better...."
that is so true, its a bit scary caus ewats gonna happen in the ned wen u actually wanna settle down, with soem one??
...get married to some woman who is still on some next man?
BIG UP RICHMOND LARGE! HOLD TIT RUFF MAJORS MASSIVE! KELLY UR SITE LIVE STILL!
I dont agree wid Kelly's actions or 'manual' but evry1s entitled 2 their own opinion! A man's game only works if women allow it 2, so women... u need 2 b curious!
Look women (not girls), if a man steps 2 u wid a few good lines, dont give ur numba up easily... have a STANDARD!
If u have 2, interigate him, i his intentions r genuine, he'll make it thro & stay. If he's not, he'll soon disappear.
And 4 those women hu give up more dan ur numba... dont sell urself cheap, have sum respect 4 ur body & b a lady. Know that ur beautiful, beauty's skin deep... SERIOUSLY!
Cos wen a man's bored of usin u, he'll leave & u'll u left BROKEN. If u dont hav a standard, any man will just walk in2 ur life & take advantage, o wen Mr Right cums along, u wont hav nefin left 2 give!
I no that men play game & sum r unfaithful but dont feel that u hav 2 or if u do... b a lady about it!
Did u no dat u can get a man xcited widout talkin dirty... its called CONFIDENCE (not arrogance)! All this page is, is a man voicing his opinion & unfortunately, most men feel this way (unless they hav JESUS!)
But if more women were led by their common sense & not their feelings, their game woodnt even go past the talking stage.
A man that respects a woman has principles & is more of a man than a BOY who 'plays games'.
Ladies, u r princesses, believe it, walk in it & show it!
From a Princess
oh my days god bless the girl who wrote the last comment!!!
how many girls have to ask their manz if its cool for them to go out with their male "friends"?
is that right?
4 all my fellow ladies out there: STEP UR GAME UP!!! Dnt let these men walk all ova us n get away wit it. Most of dem tink dey r 2 hot, but the 'game theory' makes dem tink they have an advantage ova us. Not all girls want a relationship, so honesty is always da best policy if u jus want 2 link....but both sexes in each case shud always respect eachotha n themselves in da process....
well if ur man trusts u then it shouldnt be a problem. Q. is do u trust urself?
to all my fellow ladies, STEP UR GAME UP!!! the only reason all these guys think they hav an advantage over us is bcos we're to honest wiv our intentions. not every1 wants a relationship, so dont assime. if u just wanna link, honesty is best from the start... but both sexes should respect each other and themselves at all times!
to the "famous" kelly how does a girl know if a man wants to wifey her or just a piece. if he pretends that he wnts the latter (to wifey), when really he wants the former (piece)! how r we to no?
Micheal sounds like som1 nice 2 me, dont mind having him any day any time, he sounds like what every1 thinks kelly is- *the right man*. So kelly tell micheal to get in touch! Kelly is a hoe, and probably learnt from mark. mark sounds like such a bad infulence on the rest of them, and hope he doesnt influence byron and micheal, because its obvious that he's already got to kelly. kelly instead of looking up to mans like mark, try and be original!!!
kelly, i think ur 2 funni, keep it up, ur causin bare debates!!!
They just dont get it!
Do they?
They just dont get it!
Do they?
Not many girls ask their manz if its alrite 2 go out wiv der 'male' friends. but if the girl does ask, wots d problem? she's jus tryna let her man no wagwan, wots wrong with that? bsides, if someone tried 2 stir up madness n say dt d girl is cheatin on her man, she cn say dt she let her man know dt she wos going out with her male 'friend' from day. so no1 cn chat S***. dts a reason y a girl wud ask her man bt i guess anuva reason wud b if she felt dt d boy had alterior motives, (as in he claims dt he wants 2 jus b her friend but really has other things in mind). But tru say if she does feel lyk dt brer has other intentions den she shudn't go nowhere with dt male 'friend' in d first place. cos boy, bare brerz out der sure know how to act.
oh yea. BYRON HAS LOST HIS GAME MAN. HE CAN'T PUT HIS BID IN NOTHING. IT WONT WORK. TAKE YOUR CHANCES, HOMES. he...he...
Kelly is gully...don't hate people just cuz YOU aint got game or getting played
it seems many people havent got the art of reading! i swear english literature is part of the GCSE curicculum!!! kelly is not a player! neither a bad guy, he's just trying different things and if he doesnt like the taste, he allows it! he's a guy who knows what he wants and taking his time to find the right woman! so dont jump to conclusions
true say kelly is one of the few good men left! its hard to see, but look real deep!
ive been looking in my dictionary for a word that describes kelly and I came across a fantastic word, for those of you who arent good with vocabulary, you gonna need a dictionary for this one
KELLY IS PEDANTIC!
there you go
wt is ds hype about KELLY. Kelly this Kelly dt. come on peps. all ds rubbish on wt he wants & wt he doesnt. come on! lets just get on wiv d show, come on. read about the diary, not Kelly. dt u get it, dts wat d wise 1 is trying 2 explain!
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