What A Mighty Bad Man???
This is to all the ladies. Okay it has been established women are into bad boys... no debate right? I'll like some ladies to share their experiences with bad boys and what it was that attracted them to these "bad boys" or what was such a turn on about these bad boys. If your views are otherwise... for instance, if you've outgrown this whole "bad boy" craze phase, then share your experience as well
posted by Olan Collardy at 9:14 am
25 Comments:
ok, i hate 2 admit it but women do love bad guys! i didnt fink dat this 'theory' was true until 1 of my frends pointed out dat 'quality' in me!
Most women want excitement & want 2 live on the edge but sumtimes, the only way 2 do it is through a man. Also women like 2 no dat they r protected... we dnt want feel dat if there is beef, our man isnt gonna run off or get buss up. I fink dat those r da basic reasons but as women... WE NEED 2 SNAP OUT OF IT! u cant commit da rest of ur life 2 a bad boy cos they hav no stability. He'll eventually treat u badly & u'll get 2 da point that u jus cant let go & ur stuck wiv him. So ladies, dnt always rule out da bruda dat wont stop ringin off ur fone & goes on like he aint got nofin else betta 2 do... sumtimes this is ur knight in shining armour. As u get older & mature da disadvantages of a bad boy will come 2 lite, i had 2 learn dat da hard way... u can't change him!
ive got this situation, wer der was some breh, who liked me bare b4, but i neva liked him becuz he seemed too on it... but later becuz i wasnt paying no interest, he kinda moved on and its so amazing how many girls he has on him now... so i started cn him dat way and we eventually got 2gether, but its like he wasnt the same anymore... its not like he treats me bad, but its like he doesnt fone me... it doesnt feel like he cares like he used to but the thing is
IT MAKES ME WANT HIM THE MORE!
so really he's not really a 'bad; boy as u might wanna put it... he's a good ma (I KNOW) but he's just too sly and evasive with his feelings
anyone wiv similar experience?
ok i hav a problem n i was wondering if you could help.
there is this guy that i like... well im crazy about him, he says that he likes me bk but no moves are being made. i decided 1 day 2 b upfront wid him but not in a intidmating way, he listened and we had 1 long talk basically goin ova da stuff i knew that he had feelings 4 me etc. but the nxt day it seemd like he was backin off and juz being aquward, like he wasnt intrested in makin n e moves 4ward. so i went 2 my best m8 n she asked him wat was goin on but styled it out in a general convo since they get on really well. she spoke 2 him online n i was there n wat he sed was that he is crazy about me but hes feeling vibes that im the 1 not wanting 2 make moves 4ward. IM JUST SO BAFFELED. i swear i was da 1 that went 2 him n was upfront about the way i feel and wat was goin on between us.
Can u help...? im juz stuck on what to do next....
yup gals do 4 sum twisted reason find the 'bad guys'...(the name shud b IDIOT BOIS WHO DNT WANNA GROW UP) more attractive. i think it is da mysterious and da danger vibe that we gals like. N SHAME 2 SAY..i hav been there b4. i was goin out with a 'bad guy' 4 about 3 yrs and so i thoght everything was kool and gravy. but i was BLINDED by 'love' n the fact that i was 'protected' by this 'thug/bad boy' i didnt wanna let that go. wen we split up i found out that he was playin on me wid 3 others gals. wen i asked him if it was tru he sed "it was just abit of fun with the other gals, u were my fave or i wuldnt have been with you 4 3 long years!"...B.S I THOUGHT!...well now the tables r turnin...it dnt matter wat n e 1 says but BAD GUYS (IDIOTS) DO GET THERE JUST DESSERTS! now the gal hes goin out with is playin him with his bredrin, and to top that off hes da 1 tryin 2 cum bk 2 me wid "i miss you u", "U wer gud in my life", "we wer good togethor"....SORRY HUNNI THIS BOAT HAS SAILED...OOOOOH ARRRRR CAPTIN! (",)
BUT U SEE THE THING IS...even if a gal has sence its like this 'thug bad boi(IDIOT)' has sum kind of power over gals..who r (sadly 2 say) very vunerable wen they r being loved up by the 'right' man, or the guy that SEEMS to be the rught man 4 them. n the way he gives this image is by: treating her mean, keeping her keeen, givin her loving, den gettin her summin, keepin her protected, seeming to be loyal, but the truth is its all lies! STRIGHT DOWN TO THE BONE!...simple amd gals just DONT leARN...EVEN IF THEY SAY THEY DO THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ANOTHER BROTHER WHO IS SMARTER DAN DA 1 THAT PLAYED U 4 A FOOL...dont get it twisted thou there r good men out there 2, u juz hav 2 look right, walk right, n use ya brain...(so i aint noman hater if thats wat sum of yaul thinkin lol) MEN CANT LIVE WITH THEM CANT LIVE WITH OUT THEM! LOL
I used to like Bad Boys, me and my ex were like Bonnie and Clyde I liked living on the edge, until one day he decided to get freaky and put a gun to my head while we were doin da 'dirty'! Thats when I felt that this Bonnie and Clyde fantasy was goin too far! He also felt the need to have another girl on da side and this girl went to da same University as me! Isn't life a bitch! Yet I dedicated 6 long years of my life to this 'waste man'! He basically saw me as his sex machine or if his girl could'nt be bothered to fulfil his needs I would be his subsitute! But now I realised that 'bad boys' are nothing but low down dirty shitheads who have no qualifications e.g. GCSE's to their name and make a living by hustlin. Don't they know about Karma? What goes around, comes around! They will eventually get caught, then where will thier 'Bad Boy' status be then!!
to the girl wiv the question about the boy you "crazy" about... okay one thing girls need to know is dont think telling a guy you like him helps the situation... IT DOESNT!!!!!!!!! take time out and let that resonate in your end... think about two people fighting.. two honourable samurais and one of them goes... "you know wat... you are stronger... i am not a worthy opponent... u hav won"... it defeats the whole purpose and you like lose the respect and esteem... similarly wen a girl admits she likes a guy FIRST she kills the tension... all of a sudden the chase is over and the worst part is it was a CRAP VICTORY!!!! this boy probably likes you so much but is backing away because he now knows u are so much on it and is scared of hurting you because he's got a responsibility towards you!
The fact that he isnt making any moves shows that he respects u and wants to take his time with you or he likes you and cares a lot about you AS A FRIEND!
okay way forward... dont call him as much.. withdraw and give him the illusion you are busy or seeing someone else and see him come to his knees begging u please! (y does that sound like a linie from a song?)... on a serious note... just try not getting emotionally attached to this breh... he's not sure about wat he wants... and if u push him too much... u'll snap the stick and he'll run from u... if u withdraw too fast... ders is only so much pain a man can take and he'll move on... and u'll be the one losing out... sit down and think is this guy really IT? or u just crazy about him because ders no1 else around... desperation can lead to a tunnel vision where u only see one person... if uve seen the new star wars movie.... there is a saying in der... the great yoda said... "when you feel attached, feel you need someone... fear losing someone... IT LEADS TO THE DARK SIDE..." trust me u dont wanna go to the dark side... stay on the light side (im probably chatting shit now... but)...
if ders anything girls should take way... never admit IT first!
a gun 2 ur head? wow! did that turn u on?
will a good guy (nice, ambitious and sweet) come under a "bad boy" if he was sly and evasive witht the truth?
if ne of u guys have an answa pls repli
ma bredrins man was a sort of bad guy.he wos in2 all da fraud n dealin drugs and ting.but providin everiting she needed.him n three of bredins apparentli raped a gal.dey where put on trial .he wos found guilty although he pleaded not guilty.ne way he has bin in pen 4 a while n keepin close contact.in his recent emails he has bin claimin 2 read da bible n has changedn become a christian.I gave ma bredrin da advice dat wen he cums out she should watch him n find out if has reli changed if not she should end da relationship do u tink dis advice was gud if not pls help by givin me a noda suggestion.
obviously she cant run and bail on him. I reckon wen he comes out, she should b der for him but wen the old him surfaces, she should take the hint and move on, not just run but talk to him and express how she feels. But my bet is he has probably changed.
"HE WAS PROVIDING EVERYTHING SHE NEEDED"
SHE DESERVES WHAT SHE GOT! Y IS SHE WITH THAT SORT OF GUY IN THE FIRST PLACE? EVERY GIRL THAT LIKES BAD BOYS SHOULD BE MADE TO SUFFER!!! THIS PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH BECAUSE WEN THIS STUPID GIRLS NOW REACH THE AGE OF 22-25 LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS MAN (WHO HAS AMBITION AND HAS DONE WELL FOR HIMSELF) THEY CANT FIND ONE BECAUSE THEY WASTED THEIR LIFES RUNNING AFTER 'NO FUTURE AMBITION' BOYS WHO ALL THEY NO IS DO PARTIES, DRUGS AND FRAUD!!!
GIRLS R SO FOOLISH AT TIMES!!! ARRRRGGGGGGGHHHH!!!!!!!!! MAKES ME MAD!!!!!!!!!!
THANXS
4 DA ADVICE
DERES DIS GUY 4RM MA CHURCH DAT LIKES ME.HE SAYS HE DNT WANT A RELATIONSHIP BUT HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HE LOVES ME ALTHOUGH WE R NOT 2 GEDA.I DNT HAVE FEELINGS 4 HIM IVE TOLD HIM BUT HE SAYS IM LIEING 2 HIM.I ASKED HIM Y HE TINKS DAT N HE SED COZ OF DA WAY I LOOK IN2 HIS EYES.PLS WAT ODA WAY CAN I TELL HIM I DNT WANT HIM N I DNT LIKE HIM...
i think its plain! at the end of the day u know u dont like/love him that way and THATS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS! if he persists, dont encourage his advances i.e. go on a date with him... i no wat u mean it can b jaring wen some1 is telling u that u like them but REALLY YOU DONT!
tell him he is a fool! he doesnt want a relationship and he said he loves you? so y does he love you then? what is the point in him loving you if he doesnt want to be with you? next time he tells you that, tell him some breh on sugarlounge said he is a twat! he just looking for some gratification in u telling him u love him as well? im i the only one who thinks this guy is dumb?
Kelly's tips...
1. Dont answer his phone calls
2. Dont reply his texts
3. Dont acknowledge his missed calls
4. When you are on the phone to him put him on hold for long
5. Talk about how you fancy one of his brehs
6. Dont talk much to him on the phone
7. When he asks you out, tell him you are busy
8. If he still doesnt get it, tell him you are seeing someone
AND IF HE STILL THINKS YOU LIKE HIM AND PUTTING UP A FRONT, HE'S GOT A SERIOUS PROBLEM AND IT EVEN SCARES ME RIGHT NOW!
THANXS
KELLY
ALL THE TIPS U GAVE ME IVE DONE
I AINT EVEN GOT DA CREDIT 2 TXT OR CALL HIM BAC
WEN I TELL HIM IM BUSY HE STILL ASKS ME 2 CUM 2 HIS YRD HE EVEN TOLD ME 2 TELL MA MUM DAT I WOS GOIN 2 A BREDRINS YRD 2 SLEEP DERE N CUM N SPEND DA NIGHT AT HIS YRD
BUT THANXS NE WAY
hav u tried the talking about his friend in a way that shows you are interested (even though that might not be the case)?
i gon try dat.
thanx
hey,
i hav this problem. Theres this boy I fancy and we've been talking for a while. Then I found out my bredrin also likes him. Both the boy and the girl havent told me this but I overheard her on the phone to him asking him when he was coming to check her. She's also always asking me about him. I think she's just doing that to find out what he's saying. I've asked him whats going on with her, but he denies it.
Last night a friend of mine told me she saw a text on my bredrin's phone from the boy saying he likes her "TOO" and wants to be with her. At the same time he's telling me she enjoys talking to me. We've kinda done tings in the past but not recently.
What should I do?
use ur 'FEMALE GAME' to get him hooked on you more init. It should work rite....
i dont have any game, can someone tell me more about this 'female game'?
brap! dis site it heavy. u dnt need 2 use no feminine game wiv dis boy. if hes feelin ur frend u shuld chuck him
cos wot kinda boy makes advances to his gals bredrin?
a waste man does dats wot kinda boy ur dating.
i have never dated a bad boy before but i feel for pple who av. First off all if a guy is bad and i know it i dont even try it, they dont even get my number, i dont even talk to them. Sometimes i see them around i dont even acknowledge them because i know when you get hooked it not easy to get unhooked and i dont want to play with my emotions or his emotions because there might be some next chick out there that wants him so why waste my very precious time and his useless time.
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