Sunday, November 20, 2005

Raheem's World: MY WOMEN

There comes a point in a man's life where he begins to learn and discover so many new things about the opposite sex. This goes the same for girls also, or should i say women? I believe i'm at that peak in my life where these issues of 'lovers and friends' are starting to make a lot of sense to me as i learn more and more as life goes on.

All of that is great but let's take to back to the early days, you know, those 'how to be a player' days when guys used to get away with murder and have like 10 different girlfriends and still not get caught. The days when i was such a young innocent boy who never really had any luck with women...its kind of funny because im still young, the difference is that i've learnt so much within the last couple of years, it's only fair to share my thoughts with the world.


There are three stages to a woman’s heart. These can be described as the GATE, GARDEN and the PALACE. Just to break it down for you all who are a bit puzzled at the moment.

The Gate: Many guys can be at the gate in a girls life, I mean, anyone can jus walk up to a girl and talk to her and he is at the Gate, the Gate is the starting point, the beginning, for some this could even be the end because some guys are at a girls gate for so long, this is when they are just talking to the girl for so long and never really get anywhere. Some guys can make it past the gate in just one conversation.

The Garden: Ok, the Garden, you don't really have to special to get into the garden. This is just minor stuff now, you’ve been talking to the girl and there MAY be a possibility that u may have a chance with it her. The garden can be a resting place for most men in a woman’s life.

The Palace: This is simply the woman’s heart. Now only ONE person can get into a woman’s REAL palace anyway. Some may argue that a woman can have more that one man in her palace but that’s not really true, what they think is the Palace, in that case is really the Garden. The palace is a very special place, where true feelings and real emotions are shown and shared. Most guys of these days only want to get into a girl’s garden just to get a lil’ something and then leave, but they just can’t face the fact that they real reason why they don’t go past the garden is that they simply CAN’T and in all 99.9% of the time, this is a very long process that most men just aren’t prepared to go through.

Join me as I take you through the life and times of ‘MY WOMEN’ and how I passed through the GATE, GARDEN and PALACE.

Raheem Douglas

9 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

got bored with the other one or did d story end?

5:41 pm  
Blogger Miguel Harper said...

The Gate, Garden and Palace are the three fundamental paths to a persons heart...

Have you every been in situations as those described in today's post.

To the men: where are you exactly in that girls life at the moment?

Women:where is that special someone in your life at the moment?

5:42 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

'Sugarlounge: The Book' is the continuation of the times of 'kelly'....

5:43 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

to be precise... normally im like in the garden after a few phone calls but right now... i really dont know where i am with this one... is there a place b/w the gate and the garden... like "on the fence"?

7:02 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well...u can say there can be a place between the gate and garden....this is where the woman starts showing u SOME attention..so putting it on context, u could be talking to the woman 'on the fence'...

this goes the same for guys..but in there case, theres no gate, only the garden and palace

7:24 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

so where is sugarlounge d book? n is dis ny reflections of ur true life n dreams? jus curious

2:06 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sugarlounge is a diary/story based on true life a
experiences that are explained in some sort of context that may seem surreal at first yet many people will be able to relate to the situations mentioned...

4:17 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

send an email to bigniyi@gmail.com to get a copy of the book. It's a .pdf file (You'll need an Adobe Acrobat Reader...virtaully everyone's got one)

4:34 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

raheem has a protege?H-interesting!

12:25 am  

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